most common thought: damn haha im going to have to deal with that sooner or later
Saying misandry isn’t bad or isn’t a problem is like saying that just because there are more red bricks than black bricks in the world, getting a black brick thrown at you won’t hurt.
No, that’s not even close to accurate. Your analogy is so far from making sense that it hurts. Here, I’ll fix it for you: Let’s say a man were throwing bricks at a woman’s head, all day, every day, for centuries. One day, one of the bricks hits her in the face so hard little bits of it break off and end up in her mouth, and she spits one of those tiny little bits in the general direction of the man. And then he cries like a little baby, saying that her little brick spittle that didn’t even touch him was every bit as harmful as the millions of bricks he’s been throwing since the dawn of time. And then every time she tried to complain about all the bricks he throws at her, he brings up the one time she almost spit on him like it was just as bad or worse.